Creating a living trust is just the first step. Life changes, and your trust must change with it. This guide reveals the 12 critical life events that require trust updates and shows you exactly how to keep your estate plan current.
Key Takeaways
- Review your trust every 3-5 years minimum
- 12 life events trigger immediate trust review
- Minor changes = Amendment ($200-$500)
- Major overhaul = Restatement ($500-$1,500)
- Failing to update can invalidate trust provisions
Why Keeping Your Trust Updated Matters
An outdated living trust can be worse than no trust at all. Consider these scenarios:
- Your ex-spouse still listed as beneficiary after divorce
- Assets going to adult children who are now estranged
- Trustee named 20 years ago who's no longer capable
- Provisions that no longer reflect your wishes
- New assets not included in trust
Regular trust review ensures your wishes are carried out and your family is protected.
How Often Should You Review Your Trust?
General rule: Review your trust every 3-5 years, even if nothing major has changed.
Immediate review required: After any of the 12 life events below.
Set a Recurring Reminder
Put a recurring calendar reminder every 3 years: "Review Living Trust." During the review:
- Read through your entire trust document
- Verify all beneficiaries are still appropriate
- Confirm trustees are still willing and able
- Check if new assets need to be added
- Review distribution percentages
12 Life Events That Require Trust Updates
1. Marriage
Why it matters: Marriage changes everything about your estate plan.
What to update:
- Add your spouse as beneficiary (or determine how assets are divided)
- Consider joint trust vs individual trusts
- Update trustee designations
- Address prenuptial agreement terms if applicable
- Coordinate community property vs separate property
Timeline: Update within 6 months of marriage
2. Divorce or Legal Separation
Why it matters: California law does NOT automatically remove an ex-spouse from your trust.
What to update:
- Remove ex-spouse as beneficiary (or modify provisions per divorce decree)
- Remove ex-spouse as trustee
- Update healthcare and financial powers of attorney
- Divide joint trust into separate trusts
- Re-title assets per divorce decree
Timeline: Immediately after divorce is final
⚠️ Critical: California Probate Code §6122 revokes ex-spouses from wills but NOT from living trusts. You must manually update your trust.
3. Birth or Adoption of Children
Why it matters: New children need to be explicitly included.
What to update:
- Add child as beneficiary
- Establish subtrusts or age-based distributions
- Name guardians for minor children (in pour-over will)
- Adjust distribution percentages among children
- Consider special needs planning if applicable
Timeline: Within 6 months of birth/adoption
4. Death of Beneficiary or Trustee
Why it matters: Dead beneficiaries can't inherit; deceased trustees can't serve.
What to update:
- Remove deceased person from beneficiary list
- Redistribute their share to remaining beneficiaries
- Name new successor trustee if needed
- Update alternate beneficiary designations
Timeline: Within 3-6 months after death
5. Significant Change in Assets
Why it matters: Major asset changes may require different planning strategies.
Situations requiring review:
- Inheritance or windfall
- Sale of business
- Purchase of significant real estate
- Estate now exceeds federal estate tax exemption ($13.61M in 2024)
- Significant increase or decrease in net worth
What to update:
- Fund new assets into trust
- Adjust distribution amounts or percentages
- Consider tax planning provisions
- Update asset inventory
6. Move to Another State
Why it matters: Each state has different trust laws.
What to review:
- Community property vs common law state differences
- State income tax implications
- Trustee residency requirements
- Property laws in new state
- Healthcare directive requirements (vary by state)
Note: California trusts usually remain valid in other states, but review with local attorney.
7. Change in Relationship with Beneficiaries
Why it matters: You may no longer want certain people to inherit.
Situations:
- Estrangement from child or family member
- Reconciliation with previously estranged person
- Adult child develops substance abuse issues
- Beneficiary becomes financially irresponsible
- Change in family dynamics
What to update:
- Remove or reduce inheritance
- Add protective provisions (spending limits, trustee oversight)
- Create incentive trust provisions
8. Trustee No Longer Suitable
Why it matters: Your chosen trustee must be willing and able to serve.
Reasons to change trustee:
- Trustee has become elderly or ill
- Trustee has moved far away
- Trustee is no longer trustworthy
- Relationship has deteriorated
- Trustee is unwilling to serve
What to update:
- Name new successor trustee
- Update alternate trustees
- Inform new trustee of their role
9. Tax Law Changes
Why it matters: Major tax law changes may require trust updates.
Recent changes to watch:
- Federal estate tax exemption changes (currently $13.61M, set to drop to ~$7M in 2026)
- California Proposition 19 (property tax reassessment rules changed in 2021)
- Income tax rate changes
- Trust income tax rules
What to review:
- Whether tax planning provisions are still effective
- If trust structure needs adjustment
- Property transfer strategies
10. Starting or Selling a Business
Why it matters: Business interests require special handling.
What to update:
- Transfer business interests into trust
- Add business succession provisions
- Address buy-sell agreements
- Plan for business transition vs liquidation
- Consider separate business trust
11. Purchase of Out-of-State Property
Why it matters: Avoid probate in multiple states.
What to do:
- Transfer new property into trust immediately
- Update asset inventory
- Ensure trust provides for property management in other states
- Consider state-specific issues (homestead exemptions, etc.)
12. Your Views or Wishes Change
Why it matters: Your trust should reflect your current wishes.
Examples:
- You want to leave more/less to certain beneficiaries
- You want to add charitable giving
- You want to change distribution ages for children
- You've developed strong feelings about how assets should be used
- You want to add specific bequests (jewelry, collections, etc.)
Amendment vs Restatement: Which Do You Need?
Two ways to update your trust:
Trust Amendment
Best for: Minor, specific changes
Examples:
- Changing one beneficiary
- Updating trustee designation
- Modifying distribution percentage
- Adding one new provision
Process:
- Create amendment document
- Sign and notarize
- Attach to original trust
- Keep both documents together
Cost: $200-$500
Trust Restatement
Best for: Major overhaul or multiple changes
Examples:
- Multiple beneficiary changes
- Complete restructuring after divorce
- Converting individual trust to joint trust (or vice versa)
- Major tax planning changes
- 3+ amendments already exist (consolidate them)
Process:
- Create entirely new trust document
- Incorporates all previous amendments
- Revokes prior trust and amendments
- Same trust name and date (maintains continuity)
- Sign and notarize
Cost: $500-$1,500
Advantage: One clean document instead of original plus multiple amendments.
Don't Forget to Re-Fund
After amending or restating your trust, verify all assets are still properly titled in the trust name. Some institutions may require new paperwork when trust terms change.
How to Update Your California Living Trust
Step 1: Review Current Trust
Read through your entire trust document and identify what needs changing.
Step 2: Decide on Amendment vs Restatement
One or two changes = amendment. Major changes or 3+ amendments = restatement.
Step 3: Draft Update Document
Options:
- Attorney: $500-$2,000 depending on complexity
- Online service: $200-$500 for simple amendments
- DIY: Not recommended—easy to make mistakes
Step 4: Sign and Notarize
California requires your signature to be notarized for trust amendments and restatements.
Step 5: Attach to Original Trust
For amendments: Keep amendment attached to original trust. For restatements: Destroy all copies of old trust and amendments (keep one for records).
Step 6: Inform Relevant Parties
Notify:
- New trustees of their appointment
- Removed trustees of the change
- Successor trustees (optional but courteous)
- Beneficiaries (optional—trusts remain private during your life)
Step 7: Store Safely
Keep updated trust in:
- Fireproof safe at home
- Safe deposit box
- With your attorney
- Give copies to successor trustees
Need to Update Your Trust?
We can help you amend or restate your California living trust. Simple amendments start at just $200, and complete restatements are $500-$1,500.
Call (818) 291-6217 for Help →Common Trust Update Mistakes to Avoid
1. Forgetting to Update After Divorce
This is the #1 mistake. California law removes ex-spouses from wills automatically, but NOT from living trusts. You must manually update.
2. Not Informing New Trustees
Your successor trustee should know they've been appointed and where to find the trust document when needed.
3. Making Handwritten Changes
Never write on your trust document. Handwritten changes are invalid. You must create a formal amendment or restatement.
4. Creating Too Many Amendments
After 2-3 amendments, do a restatement. Multiple amendments become confusing and increase the chance of conflicts.
5. Not Updating Related Documents
When you update your trust, also review:
- Pour-over will
- Powers of attorney
- Healthcare directives
- Beneficiary designations on retirement accounts and life insurance
Conclusion
Your living trust is a living document—it must evolve as your life changes. Set a reminder to review every 3 years, and update immediately after major life events. Regular maintenance ensures your trust works exactly as intended when your family needs it most.
Quick Action Checklist
- ☐ Review your current trust
- ☐ Identify needed changes
- ☐ Decide: Amendment or restatement?
- ☐ Call us (818) 291-6217) for assistance
- ☐ Sign and notarize updates
- ☐ Store safely